The Passion Paradox: When Loving Your Job Becomes a Curse

Love is a many-splendored thing, but when it comes to our careers, it can be a double-edged sword. Passion can drive us to excel, but it can also lead to an all-consuming obsession that blurs the lines between work and life. In fact, according to Harvard Business School professor Jon M. Jachimowicz, loving your job can be a recipe for disaster. He should know – he's been there himself. Jachimowicz's research is based on interviews with 200 high-achievers from a range of fields, including athletes, artists, and CEOs. What did he find? That even the most passionate among us can fall prey to the dangers of loving our jobs too much. "Their aspirations had, at one time or another, become more of a chore, fueling their self-doubt and stress," he notes. So, what's the problem? It's not that we're not passionate enough – it's that we're not setting boundaries. We're sacrificing our personal time and well-being for the sake of our work, and it's taking a toll. Jachimowicz's own experience is a case in point. He uprooted his life to pursue a research opportunity, only to find himself feeling burnt out and disconnected from his passion. But here's the thing: burnout isn't just a personal problem – it's a societal one. We're so conditioned to prioritize work above all else that we're neglecting our own well-being. And it's not just the employees who are suffering – it's the employers, too. "People feel like it's more permissible, more legitimate to assign additional unpaid tasks to more passionate employees," Jachimowicz says. "They're more likely to see it as an opportunity to grow and learn, or as an act of service . . . because they are so passionate about this job. " So, what's the solution? For starters, we need to start setting clear boundaries. We need to recognize the signs of burnout and take action to prevent it. And we need to challenge the notion that loving our jobs is always a good thing. In fact, it can be a curse. As Jachimowicz notes, "No vacation is going to fix that. " So, what can we do? We can start by prioritizing our own well-being, and recognizing that our passion is not a liability, but a strength.